The Polite Etiquette Rule Tourists Should Know Before Eating At A Restaurant In Mexico

Every country comes with its unique set of traditions and experiences. That is especially true when it comes to the fascinating charm of Mexico, from the historic neighborhoods and foodie scene in Mexico City to underrated gems like the vibrant riverside city of Tlacotalpan. In fact, this country has specific dining etiquette and manners that every traveler needs to get familiar with before visiting. As a tourist, you should be aware of the local traditions and culture to avoid offending anyone, even if Mexico is renowned for its warm hospitality.

That being said, there are specific dining rules that can make or break your experience or cost you a few unhappy glances. So before you offend a local's welcoming nature, here are a few dining etiquette rules and expectations when in Mexico. The dining experience is a bit more laid back than Americans are used to when it comes to service and requesting the bill. Think twice before rushing servers for your order or the check and definitely take the time to savor your meal as a sign of respect.

Dining in Mexico is more of an experience, a social gathering that should be enjoyed at a relaxed pace rather than a speedy transaction. In fact, dashing in and out can only show disrespect or convey that the meal was not enjoyed. In Mexico, many of the local traditions include food. Eating together is a way to foster relationships, build the community, and interact with loved ones, making it a huge part of Mexican culture. That's why it is important to take your time to savor and enjoy the meal before requesting the check. Just remember, Mexicans appreciate tourists engaging in their culture and traditions and would be psyched to hear you asking for the bill in their language by saying, "La cuenta, por favor." 

Simple things such as smiling and using a friendly and relaxed tone or body language will be responded to with warmth and gratitude. When you're dining out with locals, keep in mind that Mexican culture is completely unfamiliar with splitting the bill. If your host is taking you out, it is still a polite gesture to offer to pay. Remember that per Mexican culture, you should only start eating after your host says "Buen provecho!" — the Spanish equivalent of bon appétit. Don't be surprised if other guests in restaurants wish you "Buen provecho," too, as it is normal and even expected to wish strangers and guests an enjoyable meal. 

But that isn't the only rule to consider when dining in Mexico. Remember to greet staff with a friendly "hola," while maintaining eye contact and giving out your warmest smiles. And keep in mind that in Mexico, tipping is not only expected but should also be in cash. It is ideal to leave a 10 to 15% tip as a sign of gratitude and appreciation for the service, ideally in cash even if you're paying by card. Other cultural norms include leaving the check on the table rather than handing it straight to the server. 

Just remember to avoid common cultural mistakes in Mexico while eating such as speaking with your mouth full, holding your fork up, or not placing a napkin on your lap. There is a huge cultural sensitivity in that sense that should be respected by tourists. Other encouraged polite dining manners include complimenting the chef, trying to speak a few words in Spanish, and passing around food to the right. The more you attempt to embrace Mexican culture, the happier locals will be.