The Etiquette Rule Tourists Often Break While Grocery Shopping In France

As they say, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do." That sentiment follows for traveling to any place foreign to you, especially if there are significant cultural differences. That's why you shouldn't get too handsy with the produce if you go grocery shopping in France.

Yes, in the U.S., we are used to handling and choosing our own fruits and vegetables from the grocery store or even the baskets laid out on display at a farmers market. But this is a big no-no in France, and you will be side-eyed if someone catches you getting grabby with the grapes.

If you find something you'd like to purchase at a market in France, the best thing to do is ask the vendor to help you with it. Just as you wouldn't want a stranger to put their fingers all over the food you are planning to eat, the vendors in France prefer to keep their products untouched and in tip-top shape for customers. So, instead, politely let the seller know what you'd like by saying "Je voudrais" (I would like) or "Est-ce que je peux avoir" (may I have) and the name of the item. If you aren't that comfortable using French, simply point to the item to indicate what you'd like and how many.

Keeping your hands off the produce in a market is certainly not one of the most bizarre rules you have to follow in France (we kind of get it, actually), and it doesn't cost anything to be polite and respect local customs. Before asking for help, it's also important to greet someone by saying "Bonjour." From our experiences in France, we can confirm that people will appreciate your attempt to speak French, even if you only know a few words. So, grab a French book ahead of your trip if needed (like this Lonely Planet French phrasebook), and at least use essential French words and phrases, like "s'il vous plait" (please) and "merci" (thank you).

France is eco-friendly, so bring your own bags for all your delicious goodies. Cash is good to have on hand — in most cases, it's preferred over credit cards, and it could save you time. Speaking of time, we'll assume you aren't perusing a French market in a hurry. But remember that things are slower-paced in Europe, and these vendors probably have regulars they see day after day. This is not the time or place to pull a Karen.

All in all, some of the absolute best food markets in all of Europe are in France. So use your manners for the best experience. The vendors are there to assist, too, so if you don't know something — just ask!