The Subtle Social Rule In Poland That Tourists Often Miss

Try as you might to blend in while traveling abroad, you are still very likely to fall victim to the many things that can out you as an American tourist. If this happens to you, don't be embarrassed, because you're not the first nor the last tourist abroad who is so obliviously American. Many qualities and quirks ingrained into our everyday lives are second nature to us, but may seem strange to outsiders. Habits like our loud speaking voices, lack of spatial awareness, or inclination to make polite small talk tend to immediately give us away. There is one trait in particular that is common among American tourists that locals in Poland tend to avoid.

What's the first thing you do when you make eye contact with a stranger? You give them an awkward but polite smile. It seems like the natural thing to do. However, in Poland, this is not the norm amongst locals. Most tend to sport a neutral or even serious expression while walking down the street and are keen on minding their own business. In fact, local Poles are so stoic as they go about their daily tasks some might think there's a policy against smiling. Of course, no such policy actually exists. It's just a cultural difference. But don't let their stolid expressions fool you — they'll be happy to converse with you or offer help should you need it. So, if you're walking around smiling at everyone, don't be alarmed if they don't smile back.

It's true that there is a slight anti-American bias amongst local Europeans. And while a lot of it has to do with unfair stereotyping, there are some good reasons as to why locals get massively annoyed with U.S. tourists. A lot of it has to do with a lack of self awareness and cultural sensitivity. For this reason, it's always the best practice to research the cultural dos and don'ts of a region before you set off on your trip. In the case of Poland, a few things come to mind.

One of the ways locals can easily identify tourists without fail is by spotting jaywalkers. While jaywalking is common in most places in the U.S., as long as it is done safely, it is completely frowned upon in Poland. If you're caught jaywalking, you'll come face to face with a hefty fine. Another thing that's normal in some cities across the U.S. but not allowed in Poland is drinking in public. Drinking must be confined to designated spaces such as restaurants and bars. Drinking in alcohol-free zones will earn you a fine. Also be aware that Poland is a largely cashless society. Paying with cash isn't illegal, but it may earn you some annoyed looks. If you do use cash, try not to pay with large bills.