You Have TSA PreCheck And Your Travel Companions Don't. What's The Right Thing To Do?

TSA PreCheck can be a game-changer if you fly regularly and hate waiting in long security lines. With the program, you can get through security checkpoints without having to remove your shoes, electronic devices, liquids, belts, or jackets, allowing you to reach your gate more quickly. However, you must apply for TSA PreCheck and be approved before receiving expedited screening. One exception is if you're traveling with a child under the age of 13 who's included on your airline reservation. Otherwise, friends, partners, and spouses of TSA PreCheck holders should expect to use the standard security lane.

So what should you do if you find yourself at the airport with travel companions who don't have TSA PreCheck, while you do? Explore reached out to Jacqueline Whitmore, an etiquette expert, former flight attendant, and founder of The Protocol School of Palm Beach, for her exclusive advice. If you're faced with this dilemma, Whitmore explains that there are times when it's fine to use the expedited screening line, even if others in your group can't. With that said, there are several factors to consider before separating at the airport.

According to Jacqueline Whitmore, your relationship to your travel companion or group may determine whether you stick together in the security line. "It depends on how well you know the people. Ask yourself, 'What am I gaining by getting to the gate before the rest of the group?'" the etiquette expert suggests. If, for example, you're traveling casually with a few acquaintances and you each have your own separate plans (with separate flight bookings and seats), they may not take offense if you meet them at the gate. However, if your travel arrangements are mostly synchronized and you plan to board the plane together, there's little advantage in getting through the TSA checkpoint before your friends.

When choosing a security lane, also consider how your decision might impact those who don't have PreCheck. Leaving a friend waiting in line while you breeze through the checkpoint could sour the trip before it even starts. Whitmore adds that, in general, it would be bad manners to ditch one other person, especially if they're a close friend or family member. "It's best to stick together unless it's a group of strangers," she says.

If you do still choose the expedited line, use your PreCheck membership for the greater good. Let your companions know you'll save seats for them at the gate or you'll pick up a coffee for them inside the terminal. Demonstrate that your benefit can be advantageous for them too.

Sometimes, abandoning your travel companion to use the TSA PreCheck lane isn't just rude — it can leave them alone in a precarious situation. Jacqueline Whitmore notes a few instances when you should always stick together, even if it means waiting in a long security line. For one, the former flight attendant urges travelers to never leave companions under the age of 18 by themselves unless absolutely necessary. Remember, children aged 13 and older don't automatically get access to PreCheck just by traveling with an adult using the program. If they're new to traveling by plane, stay by their side to ensure they don't get overwhemled or make any critical mistakes.

Whitmore also suggests travelers stick together when one person has a disability. They may, for instance, require help lifting their luggage or following TSA's instructions. Stay by their side just in case they need a hand.

Finally, never use a separate security line from someone who is carrying any of your belongings. Your bag, device, or other item may get flagged by TSA, and you should be there for additional screening. Even if there's nothing illicit in your carry-on, your friend could get in trouble if they're the one toting your bag.